When you’re stuck, unsure, or confused, it’s rarely because you aren’t smart enough or aren’t trying hard enough to figure it out. It’s usually because there’s something you’re not seeing clearly yet.
This is where I share what’s helping me see more clearly.
The way we see ourselves determines who we become.
The way we see our neighbor determines how we treat them.
The way we see God determines what we’ll trust him with.
The way we see our work determines what we give our life to.
The way we see the problem in front of us determines what we try to fix.
The way we see what’s holding us back determines what we spend years working on.
When what we’re seeing isn’t clear or isn’t true, we often find ourselves somewhere we never wanted to be. Not for lack of effort. We were aiming at something that wasn’t fully visible.
So if we desire to go somewhere else, it starts with seeing something else.
That’s what I help people do.
Give me the raw, unedited version. It doesn’t even have to make sense or be fully organized yet. Half-formed is usually where we find the real thing hiding.
It could be the business, the marriage, the kids, the money, the job, the investment, or the next chapter.
Life becomes a lot easier to navigate once we can see clearly.
I’ve spent most of my adult life as an entrepreneur and investor. I’ve acquired, developed, operated, and invested in a lot of commercial real estate.
I’m a believer, a husband of 23 years, and a father of six, with one on the way.
On my journey, I’ve learned that what I see is a determining factor in where I end up.
The things I see clearly often end in success. The ones I don’t leave me stuck, frustrated, or heading somewhere I don’t actually want to go.
I’ve spent a good chunk of my life working to get good at seeing things clearly, and helping others do the same.
Asking things like...
What am I seeing and how clearly am I seeing it?
What might I not be seeing?
Where did what I see come from?
Where is what I’m seeing leading me?
When those answers get clear, everything downstream gets easier. Faith, family, health, work, money.
That’s why I do this.
Every episode is the same thing at its core. Something that helped me see more clearly, shared in hopes it does the same for you.
Once a week, I sit down with a group of men, and we bring the real stuff into the room.
Decisions. Problems. Opportunities. Work. Money. Faith. The things we’re wrestling with, trying to figure out, wanting to see more clearly so we can keep moving in the right direction.
There’s something truly powerful about doing this together.
This is where I share what’s helping me see more clearly.
No schedule, no filler. I only send it when there’s something worth your time.
It came straight to me, not to a queue. I read these myself, so I’ll respond soon.
I go through these myself before each meetup. If there’s a seat that fits, you’ll hear from me with the details.
Write it the way it sounds in your head, not cleaned up. Five minutes is plenty. I read every one of these myself, and I write back with whether I think I can help and what that would look like.
Small rooms, so I keep it to people who actually want to move right.
A few questions...